Fancy a go at the Back Door, Boys?
Fancy a go at the back door but not sure how to bring it up, where to go from there or what you need to be aware of? The Good Vibrator Team are on hand to help you out and 'steer' you in the right direction!
Anal sex can be an extremely pleasureable experience since there are masses of nerves around the anus and rectum in both sexes - but it does not tend to be something that people do on the few nights of lovin'! The subject is very sensative and needs to be raised when you are both feeling relaxed and comfortable. Bring up the subject of sex and how good it already is then slip in the questions on anal sex. Try and gauge a feel as to whether your lover would like to experiment and perhaps suggest a time when you may like to try it out. If your lover is up for it - don't assume that means there and then - let them think about it and discuss any fears that you both may have. The most important thing about back door playing is that you are both relaxed and comfortable and agree on a sign that means stop if necessary.
Key points about anal sex
- Tissue in the rectum is much thinner that the vagina so ensure that anything that may be finding its way up there is inspected thoroughly for rough edges.
- There is no natural lubrication in the rectum so plenty of lube is essential
- If using condoms condoms, ensure that the lublicant is compatible with the condom.
- Do not mix vaginal and anal pay because of the risk of passing infection. If you are going to use a sex toy for both, cover them in two or three condoms and remove one each time you 'change doors'.
- Ensure toys are kept scupulously clean at all times with a good sex toy cleaner.
- Relax completely, the sphincter muscles - muscles around the anus - are quite tight, relaxation ensures more enjoyable rear playground fun!
There are many types of anal sex toys -each one designed with a different sensation, requirement, or level of experience in mind.
Anal Beads have been around for thousands of years and are used to enhance your pleasure at the point of orgasm. The are a small selection of beads attached to a string or plastic stalk and come in varying sizes. Anal bead that have cotton or string should only be used once as the possibility of bacterial infection, even after thorough washing.
Anal beads are inserted into the rectum before sex and gently removed at the moment of orgasm. You might enjoy using the insertion as part of your sex play.
Butt Plugs are designed to be inserted into the anus and remain in place through the entire length on intercourse. Anal plugs come in a variety of sizes - small butt plugs, medium butt plugs and large butt plugs. They can be either vibrating or non-vibrating. Some people find that the use of inflatible butt plugs really good as they can be pumped up bit by bit as the excitement of your sexy session starts to hot up. For anal play we suggest using a specially formulated anal lube like the spike anal-lube, a great waterbased lube which is thicker than other lubes.
All good anal plugs will have a narrow neck and a flange base, which ensures the plug sits snugly and will not get lost.
Anal probes are designed to be tappered and used in the same way as a vibrator or dildo in as much as they use a thrusting action as opposed to the butt plugs, which stay in place. Standard dildos and vibrators, such as the electric blue mini vibrator or the classic gold lady finger can be used for anal play but many are too large at the head to allow easy insertion even with lashings of lube! Acrylic and glass dildos, such as the Glass Anal Twister or the Acrylic Clear Sydney Probe allow a twisting action, rather like a corkscrew, with many other glass dildos being are particularly suited for anal play, because of the nifty styling and pure ease in keeping them clean. A simple must with anal toys.
Vaginal and anal stimulation can be enjoyed at the same time with this rather wicked style double header vibrator - realistic and certainly substantial! This can add heighten orgasms for women as the anal probe stimulates and prolongs the pulsating of the orgasm. These can be great for solo sex or sex with your lover. Try a funky snake double ended dong that are available for either solo double entry or of course they will suit lesbian lovers as well.
Well - we think that the The Good Vibrator Team team must have covered just about every angle! If you can think of anyting that we have missed out then please contact us and let us know. We want you to have access to the information that you need!
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